My rant...

Why is it that I try to make everyone else around me happy when they wouldn't do the same for me? Am I being a total B in feeling like I never get time to myself to do the things I'd like to do? Or better yet, if I did get time to myself what would I do? look for things for my kids? Buy things for my kids? I understand the being a mom means that you cannot be selfish... and I don't mind doing those things, infact that's about all I do! I was recently asked "who I am?" and other then a mom, who am I? to be trufully honest, I don't know. So, where do I go from here?